Bad Guy types and Why they are every princess' guilty pleasure Part 3

Bad guy types are the villain of my blog. In a lot of Religious literature the bad guy types are almost always attributed to female characters. They are the seductress, the adultress who are nearly always portrayed as seeking to tear down a family with scandal. The susceptible family member is often a male figure, in most cases the dad. He finds the charms of the seductress  irresistible yields to illicit pleasure and as a result gets blackmailed. His family is ripped apart by a scandal that they may spend the rest of their lives trying to numb the pain of their loss- the dream of their once cherished  family life.
 This is the scandal we have come to accept in society, the one most likely to happen!!

Therefore, a mother's radar is highly attuned to detecting the revealingly dressed young attractive au pair;the miniskirted housekeeper; the female secretary of her husband! If her husband works late she has to be mindful of the danger..... is perhaps the personal assistant is out to 'steal' her husband!! So a mother updates her surveillance technology through a trusted network of informants! Armed with the most
precinct iphone technology!Security is the watchword!!A gal has got to watch out for those lipstick-@ted predators otherwise know as homebreakers or marriage terminators👍🏿😁! True true every home has issues!

But there is another individual or human species😁who is even more smart, streetwise and who has succeeded again and again in using a very seasoned and age old playbook to outwit otherwise unsuspecting families!! These has been going on for generations. This individual the villain of my blog. I am referring to the bad guy type and he is nearly always male, and he has one mission, his target is the vulnerable daddy's girl who is it transitioning into puberty. To many of you readers who dwell on planet venus, he is harmless.
But anyone who has ever been on planet mars knows he has been devastatingly effective in his adventures.

He resides in nearly every community, he may be a classmate or an older schoolmate of your daughter. Occasionally he is younger but wherever he may be located, because of his youth, very often innocent good looks, he escapes most mummy's radar.

Unlike the romantically obsessed and erring personal Assistant, who makes her interest in the husband of another woman so obvious, bad guy types are ever so respectful of their girl friend's (actually potential victim) mummy, they look decent enough and know how to warm her heart with practiced flattery!

But daddy is suspicious as he should be with anyone, who is that fixated on his little girl! Why not?You see Daddy knows a thing or two about bad guy types! Because he comes from the planet Mars where they are generated!

So let's get the context right! Daddy has no evidence that this juvenile, 17 year old who hangs around his 15 year old 'puberty transitioning' daughter would end up a typical bad guy type! But he is suspicious?Yesss!!!He has to be protective enough until a young chap wins his trust with his daughter!So is it normal that he is suspicious of nearly every guy he hasn't met before? Not unusual!! !!The suspicion is based on one criteria: provided a guy hangs out with his daughter!
Why?Because Daddy has learnt very key 'forensic' ' investigative' techniques to help him detect if  his daughters' friends will turn out being a self fulfilling prophecy....confirming his worse nightmares so far as his daughter is concerned! Daddy begins his interrogation of the young chap to determine what his intentions are.

But hold on! Mummy  thinks he is overreacting and this young chap is so sweeeeet!!! Because mummy does not think that this chap  fits the bill of a potential threat. First of all he is male and not like that miniskirted female secretary working with day;he is only 17, polite and she already thinks he is potentially most mother's dream of a friend to her daughter.

He is a bit rough at the edges, she may have heard rumours in the neighbourhood that he has a violent temper, but heck! Which 17 year old doesn't! Besides Mummy knows her daughter is very sensible and can handle herself well. But Mummy fails to realise her daughter is already so smitten with 'young gorgeous 17 year old esquire' !

AND her daughter (Daddy's little girl) could not agree more wholeheartedly!!!She is convinced she is able to assume responsibilty for herself when she is alone with him!!!Code for implying my love for my friend will fix everything!!!E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G!But Daddy wants to know how she will respond if a guy attempts to force kiss her! Mummy thinks Daddy needs to 'chill' a bit and not raise his Blood Pressure ,wirry over nothing! He needs to t-r-u-s-t their daughter to be sensible.

Daddy is not sure a 15 year old girl and a 17 year old boy ought to be left alone without supervision! But mummy is getting irate with the backwards and forwards and so cslls for silence.

 She feels her daddy is soooo wrong about her booooooyyyyy friend!!. Because just gazing into his eyes makes her go giddyyyyy with euphoric teenage girl crush!!!! 'Aaawww mummy can i hang around with him a bit longer?' Mummy says sure! Daddy says only if I can come with you!
Mummy shoots a glaring look at Daddy: 'Stop being childish about this. Your daughter is growing she is not your little girl anymore!' Daddy backs down!So the battle lines are drawn!
This Bad guy type has already won his first ally: Mummy! He has also gained access to his captive, a very naive physiologically maturing young girl whose identity used to be mainly as her Daddy's little girl.

My comnents:
Folks, my comments here are not going to be brief😁!So be forewarned! There is quite a bit that has just occurred with the above family episode involving the drawing of the battle lines and taking of sides! Remember Mummy has already decided that Daddy's fears are quite unfounded, but Daddy has 'resheath' his sword symbolically speaking , however he still distrust his daughter's  17 year old male friend.
I am going to give you an insight into his thinking!

Step 1 In the Bad Guys well practiced playbook he gains access into the inner circle of a family. He does so via the weakest link and he plays nice to the unsuspecting parent. Because every family has an issue, his engagement with them highlights whatever conflicts are existing in the family 'emotional fault' lines.🎯🎯

After gaining the trust of one parent....and it is usually the parent of the opposite gender to themselves the bad guy type executes the strategy of  turning members of the family against each other. So am I suggesting this bad guy type coukd be female? Occasionally yes!!But a female bad guy type of person rarely resorts to the approaches I am recounting as she has an arsenal full of strategy to employ! 🤣Now that is quite above my paygrade until I have done a bit more research😂😂👍🏿👍🏿

But his real bif is with Daddy on this occasion!Because Daddy is the promoter of everything which serves as a resistance to his plan.....may I say his incendiary plan of total mind cond control of his 15 year old girlfriend.

So long as she is allowed to continue in the  'illusion' that she is special or beloved of her parents, or consider she is her daddy's precious daughter who is worth the sacrifice of another man, the bad guy type will be unsuccessful in his quest over her!
SO LADIES ARM YOURSELF WITH SELFWORTH IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS WITH MEN! DO NOT GO SOLELY TO THEM FOR THE SELF WORTH YOU ARE LACKING!!

Ladies, if you believe you are special and of value, then a guy knows he needs to raise his game in order to remain in a relationship with you. But these bad guy types are not coming to invest in you. Their mindset is to rob you ultimately of your crown jewels! In order to be successful in that quest they need to strip you of every sense of worth and value. Because what he is attempting to accomplish is the antithesis of all that is special about you(to be continued)