When he calls her by his favourite affectionate names for her it is so sweet! But these are the same names he has called her since she was age 4. She is smart enough to observe that her Daddy has remained stuck in her pre adolescent years so far as reading her is concerned! So she protests in saying I am no longer a little girl, to which his response is nearly always 'yes I know and acknowledge that.....but to your daddy you will always be my little girl'. So Daddy continues to address her with affectionate sweet nothings as his little girl rushes through puberty, with her interest in a different kind of world she is becoming more aware of ! This world is the world of boys, and potentially men. This is the world she knows her Daddy has been a part of all his life. Her curiosity is constantly being aroused to this world and sometimes this appears all consuming to her 15 year old self!
She wants answers to her questions, about why she feels a certain way around some boys?
She wants answers to her questions, about why she feels a certain way around some boys?
She wants to understand the rush of excitement she feels when she is around some boys and even older guys? Why she has her personal.....ohh really private dreams🙄🙄 about getting to know.....just a bit more ....pleeeeeeese......about this particular boy in her school!!😴🤔Why she has a crush on some boy types, even total strangers she has never met and may never meet because they
are only TV characters? Yet she is drawn to watch this particular movie again and again, not because of the storyline, as daddy boringly thinks but because she has a crush on the main character, a boy
who is about her age. Slowly.....gradually......and then quickly.....she is fast becoming aware of this passion inside her which is becoming easily aroused.
are only TV characters? Yet she is drawn to watch this particular movie again and again, not because of the storyline, as daddy boringly thinks but because she has a crush on the main character, a boy
who is about her age. Slowly.....gradually......and then quickly.....she is fast becoming aware of this passion inside her which is becoming easily aroused.
She has questions. Dozens of them! Even more questions stir up in her watching certain movies:
When watching rom com types, after sneaking on Netflix to watch those in the 15 plus and even 18 plus age category, the arousal and excitement carries into her sleep.
On Some days she can hardly focus on her school work! Oh how boring school work is! Except for those class sessions where she is involved in group work sessions with that cute boy who 'literally' exudes l-o-v-e and at times a sense of p-a-s-s-i-o-n in her. All she wants to do is read read and devour romantic story lines. Chick flicks of a older category. Because she has questions, endless questions and she wants to discover about this fascinating world of boys and men!
When watching rom com types, after sneaking on Netflix to watch those in the 15 plus and even 18 plus age category, the arousal and excitement carries into her sleep.
On Some days she can hardly focus on her school work! Oh how boring school work is! Except for those class sessions where she is involved in group work sessions with that cute boy who 'literally' exudes l-o-v-e and at times a sense of p-a-s-s-i-o-n in her. All she wants to do is read read and devour romantic story lines. Chick flicks of a older category. Because she has questions, endless questions and she wants to discover about this fascinating world of boys and men!
But ohh how naive of this daddy !! He completely misses the glaring signs! The clearest indicators highlighting the developmental changes in his puberty transitioning 'little girl' ! He is unaware of her need of him more than ever! The need to help steer her through this turbulent phase of her life!
To say his response to a maturing teen is inadequate would be the understatement of the century!Truth is, if Daddy perceives his 15 year old as his 'eternal sweet little girl' then his responses to her questions will be as they have always been. Certainly not as the should be in addressing her growing need for guidance through the turbulence of puberty. But notwithstanding her emotional development which isn't always so obvious at puberty to an oblivious dad, other changes such as the physiological in his daughter ought to be glaring enough for him to respond to!
If he happens to be a man knowledgeable about science then what a real shame! No! Then it should be inexcusable! A complete dereliction of his fatherly responsibility.
He ought not to live in denial. Conversations may be awkward at first but it needs to go beyond what she shouldn't be doing. Talks of censorship and 'protecting' his little girl from the 'evil' out there? Really? That should not even factor in their conversation!!
Daddy needs to wake up and real soon too! Because as some families have learnt the painful and hard way there is potentially a far greater danger to the now maturing little girl if she stumbles into puberty only armed with her naivety! I mean when she is not supported with the knowledge and appropriate information!!
To say his response to a maturing teen is inadequate would be the understatement of the century!Truth is, if Daddy perceives his 15 year old as his 'eternal sweet little girl' then his responses to her questions will be as they have always been. Certainly not as the should be in addressing her growing need for guidance through the turbulence of puberty. But notwithstanding her emotional development which isn't always so obvious at puberty to an oblivious dad, other changes such as the physiological in his daughter ought to be glaring enough for him to respond to!
If he happens to be a man knowledgeable about science then what a real shame! No! Then it should be inexcusable! A complete dereliction of his fatherly responsibility.
He ought not to live in denial. Conversations may be awkward at first but it needs to go beyond what she shouldn't be doing. Talks of censorship and 'protecting' his little girl from the 'evil' out there? Really? That should not even factor in their conversation!!
Daddy needs to wake up and real soon too! Because as some families have learnt the painful and hard way there is potentially a far greater danger to the now maturing little girl if she stumbles into puberty only armed with her naivety! I mean when she is not supported with the knowledge and appropriate information!!
Somebody needs to please alert her daddy to the following in case he has missexd it:
❗️In the last two to three years now a sleeping tigress of passion has been aroused in his little girl.
❗️In the last two to three years now a sleeping tigress of passion has been aroused in his little girl.
❗️During this period she has experienced puberty with such a wealth of hormonal evolvement that has rewired her outlook ready to transition into womanhood.
❗️She is no longer your little girl in the sense of physiology and psychology.
❗️Daddy stop speaking to and addressing the innocent lamb/little girl in her.
❗️ Daddy start addressing her questions about the world you are a part of!
❗️ She wants to find out about boys, so be transparent and speak to her from your own evolvement.
❗️ Do not wait for her to find out first hand through experimenting.
❗️ Because if you do, it is likely to be an experiment overseen by a bad guy type!
❗️When a parent fails to speak to the stirring embodiment of hormones' that constantly send passion inducing chemical impulses in their daughter Bad guy types can easily step in.
!They are the only ones of her age claiming to have the kind of answers she is yearning for.
❗️ Bad guy types exist is all ages. They may be emotionally immature themselves. But they have become streetwise enough to recognise the need in your daughter.
❗️So if you are a Daddy reading this or you know of any who needs to be hearing this! Please alert them to the potential danger their puberty transitioning daughter faces.
🔔Ask them to look really well....look further when gazing into 'their little girl's eyes and if they are transitioning into puberty perhaps this daddy will care to notice a bridled tigress of passion that is a part of her, which she is perhaps becoming increasingly aware of during puberty.
A daddy's silence and what he leaves unsaid is the inroad that bad guy types seek
access to. Because bad guy types have learnt to recognise their potential victims. They can spot a growing emotionally naive girl, desperate for answers! so caught up in the curiosity surrounding them,. It is this nature almost biological need to understand, to know, to explore that the bad guy types look out for.
This blog is the chronicling of a frequently occuring phenomenon among puberty transitioning girls. They are vulnerable and this often leads to tragic events. The rate of adult women of all ages who have been victims of this very predictable pattern of events attests to this.
In a lot of cases, parents and guardians often miss the signs. This may be occuring Dear Daddy or mummy, my message to you is that there may be a tragedy of significant emotional proportions about to happen in your own family. Something that could affect your child's mental health for most of their adult life.
You Daddy, or mummy are about to loose your little girl on the altar of self violation unless you become more of a skillful therapist. carefully prepared from an unsuspecting source. So begin and take a very close look at the innocent rose under your very nose.
Begin speaking not only into the lamb in your daughter's personality symbolised by the look of innocence in your 'little girl' but speak to the unbridled tigress of passion that is also being stirred up in her mind(to be continued).
❗️She is no longer your little girl in the sense of physiology and psychology.
❗️Daddy stop speaking to and addressing the innocent lamb/little girl in her.
❗️ Daddy start addressing her questions about the world you are a part of!
❗️ She wants to find out about boys, so be transparent and speak to her from your own evolvement.
❗️ Do not wait for her to find out first hand through experimenting.
❗️ Because if you do, it is likely to be an experiment overseen by a bad guy type!
❗️When a parent fails to speak to the stirring embodiment of hormones' that constantly send passion inducing chemical impulses in their daughter Bad guy types can easily step in.
!They are the only ones of her age claiming to have the kind of answers she is yearning for.
❗️ Bad guy types exist is all ages. They may be emotionally immature themselves. But they have become streetwise enough to recognise the need in your daughter.
❗️So if you are a Daddy reading this or you know of any who needs to be hearing this! Please alert them to the potential danger their puberty transitioning daughter faces.
🔔Ask them to look really well....look further when gazing into 'their little girl's eyes and if they are transitioning into puberty perhaps this daddy will care to notice a bridled tigress of passion that is a part of her, which she is perhaps becoming increasingly aware of during puberty.
A daddy's silence and what he leaves unsaid is the inroad that bad guy types seek
access to. Because bad guy types have learnt to recognise their potential victims. They can spot a growing emotionally naive girl, desperate for answers! so caught up in the curiosity surrounding them,. It is this nature almost biological need to understand, to know, to explore that the bad guy types look out for.
This blog is the chronicling of a frequently occuring phenomenon among puberty transitioning girls. They are vulnerable and this often leads to tragic events. The rate of adult women of all ages who have been victims of this very predictable pattern of events attests to this.
In a lot of cases, parents and guardians often miss the signs. This may be occuring Dear Daddy or mummy, my message to you is that there may be a tragedy of significant emotional proportions about to happen in your own family. Something that could affect your child's mental health for most of their adult life.
You Daddy, or mummy are about to loose your little girl on the altar of self violation unless you become more of a skillful therapist. carefully prepared from an unsuspecting source. So begin and take a very close look at the innocent rose under your very nose.
Begin speaking not only into the lamb in your daughter's personality symbolised by the look of innocence in your 'little girl' but speak to the unbridled tigress of passion that is also being stirred up in her mind(to be continued).
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