Issues affecting children of marriages that break up!(Part 1)

Sunday Evening is often a special and a wonderful time for the family!But for many children whose parents are either separated or divorced there are other needs as well! Bedtime is quite lonely! Going to bed, longing for both parents and not just one to be around is especially one area of longing.

Adults can easily escape into the diversion of work! Children usually, only have two kinds of outlets: one steming from negative emotions such as anger, resentment, distress and the other from more creative ones, which often result in fantasizing, daydreaming!

An adult may succeed well in blocking out, relational issues he or she faces!A CHILD HAS NO PLACE TO HIDE! His or her very world is being threatened when mum or dad cannot get along. He or she has no life experiences in helping determine possible outcomes!No way of applying through firsthand experience conventional insights,that interpreted highlight the age old wisdom: THIS ONE TOO WILL PASS!

The Adults who are caught in the Crossfire of a failed relationship are often aware of some degree of suffering that their beloved little darlings are undergoing. Naturally, they want to protect their loved ones. IT IS AT THIS STAGE THAT A LOT OF COMPROMISE IS STRUCK.
They agree to do certain things,'forthe sake of the children'. But this is where the biggest mistakes are made!Because the very rationale behind the reasoning is flawed! When two people who once loved each other, agree to get along, for the sake of a third party;even though in reference to their own children.They are rewriting the committment they once made to each other!(contd in Part 2)

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